Getting divorced with children can be complex. For some couples, it’s even hard to determine if they want to divorce or not. Someone may know that they want to file for divorce, and a couple may even agree that they want to end the marriage. But they’re not sure if that’s best for the children, so they decide to stay together.

In this situation, the couple has correctly recognized that divorce can be difficult for children. This is why it’s so important to consider how you break the news and how you can provide stability in their lives during this difficult time. But that doesn’t necessarily mean that it’s better to stay together for the children, and it may even be worse.

Is the conflict level increasing?

The big question to ask is what the conflict level is like in the home. Some couples are still on relatively good terms, even though they don’t want to be married, and conflict levels may be low. But many couples who are on the verge of a breakup are having constant disagreements and arguments. The conflict level may get worse with time.

What researchers have found is that it’s often better for children in this situation if their parents get divorced. Staying together can actually cause harm because the child is trapped in a high-conflict home. Divorced parents may actually wind up being better parents for their children.

Of course, every situation is unique, but this does show some of the considerations involving children and divorce. Those who are working their way through this process need to carefully consider all of their legal options.

 


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About Aislynn Thomas-McDonald and Kelley Kronenberg

Aislynn Thomas-McDonald serves as Partner and Business Unit Leader at Kelley Kronenberg, where she focuses on family law and probate matters. Her comprehensive practice encompasses divorce, paternity, timesharing, child support matters, adoption, collaborative divorce, wills and trusts, guardianship, and elder law. Prior to joining Kelley Kronenberg, Aislynn established herself as a respected family law practitioner, earning an AV® Preeminent™ Peer Review Rating by Martindale-Hubbell®.

Aislynn strives to provide concierge support to her clients through understanding their objectives and goals, advising them honestly about the best course of action. She works to resolve issues without proceeding to litigation and then will advocate zealously when a case does move in that direction. Her commitment extends beyond legal practice through extensive community involvement and advocacy for domestic violence awareness, children’s legal advocacy, and women’s rights.

  • Divorce and legal separation
  • Child custody and timesharing
  • Child support and alimony

  • Prenuptial and postnuptial agreements

  • Adoption
  • Collaborative divorce
  • Domestic violence protection
  • Paternity matters

By joining Kelley Kronenberg, Attorneys at Law, in 2025, Aislynn is able to continue offering concierge legal service with the resources of a full-service large law firm. This combination provides clients with personalized attention backed by comprehensive legal resources and support.

Aislynn is dedicated to providing top-quality legal services to residents throughout South Florida and the Florida Keys. Her practice is based in Miami and serves clients throughout the region with both local expertise and broader legal resources.

To schedule a consultation with Aislynn Thomas-McDonald at Kelley Kronenberg, contact their Miami office. During your initial consultation, she will evaluate your specific situation, explain your legal options, and develop a strategy tailored to your unique circumstances and goals.

Throughout every case, Aislynn demonstrates sensitivity to both the emotional and legal challenges her clients are facing and works to reach terms that are agreeable to all parties. Your first meeting will focus on understanding your situation, discussing your objectives, and outlining potential paths forward with honest, practical advice.

Yes, Aislynn Thomas-McDonald is experienced in collaborative divorce, which offers couples a way to resolve their differences outside of traditional litigation. This approach focuses on cooperation, open communication, and finding mutually beneficial solutions while minimizing emotional and financial costs.

As a full-service law firm, Kelley Kronenberg provides access to specialists across multiple practice areas when family law cases involve complex financial matters, business valuations, tax implications, or other specialized legal issues that may arise during divorce or estate planning proceedings.